Hi, everybody, long time no see in blog. The last  blog was written more than one year ago, and I found myself reluctant to write a blog, not to mention in English. Recently, I finished one piece of paper in English and found it hard to use this language. As I am free now, I’d like to summarize the past year, which plays the most important role in my whole life.

The reason why the past year is so important for me is that it determines my future. After serveral business trips which are the only things I’ve done during my master, I succeeded in graduating from NUDT. Unfortunately, I failed in the ph.D record examination and had to worry about the problem of the job. Those days were really tough for me and my family and I might lose many brain cells in that time. And finally, with everybody’s help, I was assigned to a nice place where is near to my hometown and very comfortable for work. Someone said it was totally lucky for me to get this job and I would rather say it is all your contribution. I am a grateful man and I would own my indebeted to you for life.

Please do not laugh at my complacency. This place is very nice for work and I am totally satisfied. First of all, this city is close to my hometown. Once I finish my study in driving school, I could drive home in 2.5 hours. The interurban bus is convenient and I also can take a train in the interest of money. The high-speed railway is due in the next year and that’s the fastest way to go home, and I also hope it is the cheapest way. Secondly, I have to admit that living among this quiet hill is very comfortable. The carteen and shop are close and the office is just 10 min on foot. What’s more, this place is not far from the center of the city. At most of 30 min by bus, I can get everything I want to buy. People here are very nice to me and I have full passion in my work. The most exciting thing for me is that I can play soccer every week. Two times in smaller field are regular and one in normal now and again. Like today, I got the first blood in this match to some company and our team beat them badly.

The only thing I need to worry is common to everybody, the house. Well, this involves the marriage problem which bothers me a lot recently. I have been arranged several blind dates recenetly and frankly speaking, I am a little tired of this form to find one to love. Little by little, I develop some basic rule for the one I approve. She should have a steady work in this city or she is going to work in this city. I do not want to see a live seperation after we are married. A good looking is not important but at least I am supposed to have the courage to take her out. Last but not least, filial piety! I am under the mind that those rules are not censorious, are they? I find it hard to love someone when we are older, and I wonder when I can find the one. My family and friends think that I am not old enough to worry this problem, but, as belonging to Libra, I am not the one to bear the loneliness. Since the lover is hard to get, the friend can not miss in my life. Yet, you know how hard to find a friend as you get older, especially at work.

The past year gave me the greatest oppotunity to fulfil my furture and how I can disappoint you, the ones I love. The comming year will determines the direction of my work and future, and I don’t wanna mess it.

Target: work, lover and car.

Please do not forget me, my friends. Give me a call when you miss me~


  1. 全英文啊

  2. Seems you’ve already well adapted to your new environment , how I envy you ! Yes , as we get older ,it is rather harder to find someone to love . How we miss the passed lover ! But just like the missing chances , the missing lover will never come back again . So when we come across the right one , are we ready to hold on ? How can we hold on ? Just like the famous problem about live or die , this is a problem .
    Wish you find the one you love as soon as possible , to put an end to your loneliness ,and to cut down the rate of bachelor in China , since you’ve already got a bachelor’s degree long time ago !

  3. To Sunny, thank you very much! And I see your joke about bachelor. That’s a good one!!