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清代明相张廷玉说的。。。
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罚自己写100遍！
曾子曰：祝你们节日快乐，你们负责美丽就行了，其他的由男人负责
其实女人至少还要负责生孩子～～
曾子曰：男人在结婚前觉得适合自己的女人很少，结婚后觉得适合自己的女人很多
“不要恨任何人，尤其是你的敌人，那样会影响判断”
“别人打你的右脸，那你就把左脸也伸给他打。最多几个指印～”
“Never be angry, otherwise never show it!”
《教父》里头的教父的名言：“我要跟他讲道理”
实际上讲也不是道理，只是让别人人看清客观形势，考虑不同的solution的不同结果，再做选择而已。。只是他选用了强迫的姿态文质彬彬的跟人讲道理，让别人一定服从自己的solution。。所以有的时候控制欲望不是用简单的形式来体现的，真正有效的控制往往用一种貌似温和和讲道理的方式来体现。。
所以在试图影响别人之前，考虑一下方式，直接的威胁太过于血腥，成本会很高
1。“当你还没有跟一个女孩结婚的时候，你永远不会知道她心里究竟想什么”
2。“爱一个人需要钱吗？需要吗？不需要吗？需要吗。。。。。不需要吗？”
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只是刚听到的台词而已。。跟现实无关
You must be a politician, or we can say, statesman first, because if you want to persuade others, you must be familiar with the skills of statesmen, especially in managing areas, for there are too many managing ways and methods, you can not say: this one is right and that is false, many times, when we discuss manament, we discuss principles.
If you want to be an expert, you must focus on another important thing:
if you really need to be a politician always? somebody said that the life is too short and ephemeral, you needn't waste time in trifles, just get rid of them., but as my opinions, we can not always throw them away, for we need the practice to be an experts, you will not always have chance.
A powerful and enthusiastic consultant of us taught me last night the title words, immediately I replied that I had opposite opinions, she said: you are wrong!
Polite is just a living attitude, it's quite different from working, you could always be polite, you can, but never expect that polite could give you help for your work. work is decided by you thoughts and the procedure.
Is it right? should we divide the 'work' and 'life' ? many times we considered work as one part of life, but work is quite different from anything else, you depend on working to feed your families and youself, so you must be only a working guy when working for the boss pay for it and the boss employ you for working, for sloving problems, for....polite itself is NOT useful for working.
Is it right? maybe not.